Most men will not take their wives back after committing infidelity. Most men will not stand  beside their wives  in public in support of their actions.
  Do you think women take the men back because of their socialization, because they are more emotional about relationships, in some cases bring less resoures in to the marriage? Women stay because of the chrildren or do not want to be alone? Please email your friends and have them  email their friends. I have spoken to many women and men on this question and know one seem to know for sure.